Jerold Jay Kreisman Interview on I hate you don't leave me

Episode 19 April 07, 2022 00:25:47
Jerold Jay Kreisman Interview on I hate you don't leave me
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Jerold Jay Kreisman Interview on I hate you don't leave me

Apr 07 2022 | 00:25:47

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Jerold J. Kreisman, MD, is a psychiatrist and leading expert on borderline personality disorder (BPD). He is coauthor of the best seller I Hate You, Don?t Leave Me; which is considered a classic of both the popular and academic literature on BPD, and has been completely revised and updated in 2010. His book Sometimes I Act Crazy and Talking to a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder describes how families and friends confront the disorder. Kreisman produces a blog for Psychology Today. He lectures widely in the United States and abroad, and is in private practice in St. Louis, MO.

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WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.080 --> 00:00:04.240 This is Rachel Armor Cover. We've got a special guest here. He's here 2 00:00:04.280 --> 00:00:08.679 to tell us a little bit about himself and then he's you're going to ask 3 00:00:08.759 --> 00:00:13.599 him some questions. This M Jerry is going to tell us. Tell us 4 00:00:13.640 --> 00:00:21.760 a little bit about yourself. Well, good morning, Rachel. DELIGHTED TO 5 00:00:21.760 --> 00:00:29.800 BE WEAKIA Today. I'm Joe Christman. I'm a psychiatrist located in St Louis. 6 00:00:31.000 --> 00:00:36.240 My interest has been in number of areas, but primarily in areas of 7 00:00:36.280 --> 00:00:40.679 borderline personality disorder, and I've been interested in for a long time. Actually 8 00:00:40.759 --> 00:00:45.640 been interested in when I was in training, even before it was really defined, 9 00:00:46.159 --> 00:00:52.159 which really wasn't standardized until the DSM came out for the third edition, 10 00:00:52.240 --> 00:00:59.399 came out in the s buts, and during this time I've written number of 11 00:00:59.520 --> 00:01:03.719 articles and in books in the area. The most popular, I guess, 12 00:01:03.879 --> 00:01:08.319 is a book called I hate you, don't leave me, which is kind 13 00:01:08.359 --> 00:01:17.680 of characterizes the struggles that people with borderline personality disorder have. It's now in 14 00:01:17.799 --> 00:01:22.480 its third edition, most recently came out a couple months ago. My other 15 00:01:22.480 --> 00:01:26.120 books in the area is is a borderline personality what is called sometimes I had 16 00:01:26.200 --> 00:01:32.359 crazy and then when they came out a couple of years ago which, unlike 17 00:01:32.400 --> 00:01:36.120 the other two, which are devoted towards a general public, that are also 18 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:42.400 well referenced and are used in by professionals. My third book that came out 19 00:01:42.439 --> 00:01:47.840 a couple of years ago, talking to a local one with borderline personality disorder, 20 00:01:48.120 --> 00:01:52.519 is year just to the general public in terms of people who are living 21 00:01:52.519 --> 00:01:57.239 with someone or dealing with someone with poorderline personality and determining ways that it may 22 00:01:57.400 --> 00:02:01.000 be helpful. Some years ago we develop one of the first, I think 23 00:02:01.040 --> 00:02:07.879 it was probably the first, unit at a hospital here in St Louis that 24 00:02:07.039 --> 00:02:15.199 was meant to be a short term program specifically for borderline personality. Nowadays there 25 00:02:15.240 --> 00:02:23.879 are several around the country that are helpful through this diagnosis. Okay, all 26 00:02:23.960 --> 00:02:29.759 right, general we're going to ask you some questions. What are you working 27 00:02:29.800 --> 00:02:34.560 in the mental field? How did you get into this home mental hull field? 28 00:02:37.800 --> 00:02:44.520 In medical school you rotate the different specialties and what I found in treating 29 00:02:45.599 --> 00:02:50.800 I really liked several, including pediatrics and arology internal medicine, but when I 30 00:02:50.879 --> 00:02:55.240 rotated for psychiatry I found that was the one specialty where I was really able 31 00:02:55.479 --> 00:03:00.360 to sit down and spend time with them, with an individual, really get 32 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:05.319 to know a person. I found that more treating more interesting to me. 33 00:03:05.479 --> 00:03:12.159 So I kind of hear in that direction in medical school at Cornell that one 34 00:03:12.199 --> 00:03:17.759 of the professors there was starting to work with with adolescence that he labeled borderline, 35 00:03:17.800 --> 00:03:23.159 even though this was before the term was even acknowledge, and I found 36 00:03:23.479 --> 00:03:28.639 dealing with some of these kids was very interesting and when I did internship I 37 00:03:28.759 --> 00:03:35.560 rotated through several different specialties, including the country, and that's sort of solidified 38 00:03:35.639 --> 00:03:38.280 it. And from there I went on a training at the national intud mental 39 00:03:38.319 --> 00:03:46.039 health in Washington for psychiatric training and then came back to St Louis for more 40 00:03:46.080 --> 00:03:52.840 and have been stay of working years since then and that's been my interest. 41 00:03:53.280 --> 00:03:59.879 I got interested in borderline personality because it was an area that wasn't well understood 42 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:05.479 and it was a group that signified, a group of patients who other professionals 43 00:04:05.520 --> 00:04:10.840 really did well. I take it back then, these are patients who had 44 00:04:10.879 --> 00:04:17.560 a reputation of being difficult, demanding and way back years ago, we're thought 45 00:04:17.600 --> 00:04:23.360 to be really not very treatable, but I found them to be interesting, 46 00:04:23.439 --> 00:04:32.639 intelligent, triguing challenging but kind of exciting to kind of work with, and 47 00:04:33.279 --> 00:04:39.839 that's when I became more interested and more involved and began seeing more and writing 48 00:04:39.839 --> 00:04:48.240 more about about this group. Okay, what are some difference with dealing with 49 00:04:48.279 --> 00:04:57.079 avoidant attachment style, avoidant attachment disorder for end, versus bpd, and is 50 00:04:57.120 --> 00:05:00.959 it is there a lot of differences or is there a lot of overlap as 51 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:10.040 well? Avoided, when you when you say avoid attachment, you're talking about 52 00:05:10.160 --> 00:05:17.959 kind of a diet either attached or avoid and that's sort of does describe the 53 00:05:18.120 --> 00:05:23.560 kind of I hate you, though, and leading persona of people with borderlings 54 00:05:23.639 --> 00:05:29.360 personality very there is a tendency to clean one of the one of the concerns 55 00:05:29.399 --> 00:05:34.000 and people with this disorder is fears of abandonment. So there's a ten attendency 56 00:05:34.079 --> 00:05:38.079 to kind of want to grab onto people, but at the same time there's 57 00:05:38.199 --> 00:05:43.879 also a fear of being overwhelmed, being gobbled up, and a lot of 58 00:05:43.879 --> 00:05:50.160 it is felt to be precipitated by experiences with attachment issue growing up and sometimes 59 00:05:50.240 --> 00:05:59.439 involved with trauma issues in the past. But borderline personality disorder is named reaffined 60 00:05:59.560 --> 00:06:05.240 dig else is an attachment avoidance is more of a general term for they really 61 00:06:05.319 --> 00:06:12.240 don't correlate that well, okay, well, I mean I know there's a 62 00:06:12.399 --> 00:06:20.759 there's an actual avoidant attachment personality disorder which is different than like a generic avoidant 63 00:06:20.759 --> 00:06:27.560 attachment style which can be used commonly among people that just have an insecure attachment 64 00:06:27.600 --> 00:06:33.759 style. Well, that's not actually a depotit. There are ten personality disorders 65 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:38.439 and attach, the Avoidan it's not one of them. It's that the term 66 00:06:38.519 --> 00:06:41.639 that gets grown around and meaning some I think, different things different people. 67 00:06:44.720 --> 00:06:53.639 Okay, you mentioned there's a lot of trauma related to BEPD. Is there 68 00:06:53.759 --> 00:07:00.360 some evidence that's kind of troversal, that bpd is not related to trauma? 69 00:07:02.839 --> 00:07:10.560 Many people with bpd have a history of trauma and their childhood. But it's 70 00:07:10.680 --> 00:07:14.920 not. But there are many, there are many others that aren't and it 71 00:07:14.920 --> 00:07:20.480 gets kind of confusing sometimes because back about thirty years ago there was a movement 72 00:07:20.519 --> 00:07:27.920 that was saying that basically borderline personality disorder was really a form of post dramatic 73 00:07:27.959 --> 00:07:31.879 stress disorder and they years now a guy concept. And again it's not a 74 00:07:32.000 --> 00:07:36.680 it's not a defined disorder or a defined personality disorder. But some people talk 75 00:07:36.759 --> 00:07:43.720 about what's called complex post traumatic stress disorder, where there's a specific abuse in 76 00:07:43.839 --> 00:07:48.639 childhood that has the same symptoms, basically borderline personality, tendency that to hurt 77 00:07:48.800 --> 00:07:57.639 oneself and auls of mood changes, poor sense of identity, difficulties of the 78 00:07:57.680 --> 00:08:03.800 relationships. But genetically it's been shown that post dramatic stress disorder and borderline personality 79 00:08:03.839 --> 00:08:11.360 are are genetically different. They are the symptoms can be could be differentiated. 80 00:08:11.439 --> 00:08:16.959 So they're they're not, they're not the same and not everybody with borderline personality 81 00:08:16.160 --> 00:08:22.639 has history of trauma. Now, some other people have argued to get think 82 00:08:22.680 --> 00:08:26.240 a look at it. Another direction is that many of the people who are 83 00:08:26.319 --> 00:08:31.240 not aware of a sense of trauma in their background really do have a sense 84 00:08:31.279 --> 00:08:35.320 of trauma, but they've either blocked it out or they've that's domed. It's 85 00:08:35.360 --> 00:08:39.960 just a matter of well, everybody goes through everybody has a father who boats 86 00:08:39.960 --> 00:08:43.600 them up every once in a while or takes out their belt, or has 87 00:08:43.639 --> 00:08:46.320 a mother who drinks all the time and and they don't acknowledge that there's a 88 00:08:46.360 --> 00:08:52.440 sense of trauma. But although history of trauma in the background of someone mortaline 89 00:08:52.480 --> 00:08:58.159 personality disorder is common. It's not a requirement for the defining the diagnosis. 90 00:08:58.200 --> 00:09:11.120 In some people do not acknowledge that a trauma. Okay, I was really 91 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:18.679 interested in your information about Adhd and borderline personality being related. Can you elaborate 92 00:09:18.759 --> 00:09:24.960 on that, I think. What are the realities of poorderline personality disorder is? 93 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:31.200 It rarely presents by itself. When someone would be PP asked for help, 94 00:09:31.240 --> 00:09:39.360 there's usually in an accompanying a comorbid disorder along with it. Most commonly 95 00:09:39.679 --> 00:09:46.480 it's depression. Often it's anxiety. Sometimes it's even bipolar disorder, which is 96 00:09:46.480 --> 00:09:56.399 different than poorderline personality disorder, and sometimes attention definity disorder occurs Comorbidly, and 97 00:09:56.559 --> 00:10:01.720 sometimes it can be a little difficult to tease out the difference because in both 98 00:10:01.759 --> 00:10:09.720 disorders there's a tendency. People with borderline personality and add can be impulsive. 99 00:10:09.879 --> 00:10:15.600 They often have racing thoughts, they also can have issues of anger. They 100 00:10:15.720 --> 00:10:22.440 also can self medicate with alcohol or other substances. So they have a lot 101 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:28.080 of things in common and it is it. There have been some studies showing 102 00:10:28.120 --> 00:10:35.159 that a significant in a percentage of people who have a childhood diagnosis of adhd 103 00:10:35.480 --> 00:10:41.639 later on also fulfill criteria for a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. So they, 104 00:10:41.879 --> 00:10:48.000 like which some of the other syndromes, they not infrequently do occur together 105 00:10:48.039 --> 00:10:52.320 and do have similar kinds of symptoms. There are differences, though, of 106 00:10:52.320 --> 00:11:01.120 course, in adding or Adhd, which is basically say there's not usually a 107 00:11:03.000 --> 00:11:07.679 symptom of self harming. Very usually isn't the same kind of issues with the 108 00:11:07.799 --> 00:11:15.919 identity. There may be some of the interpersonal difficulties, but there are obviously 109 00:11:16.000 --> 00:11:22.080 distinctions between those two disorders either, though they may or co occur well, 110 00:11:22.080 --> 00:11:28.440 because, I mean Adhd you can see in the brain as well. Well. 111 00:11:28.480 --> 00:11:35.639 There are some indications of that, although I don't think that's been totally 112 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:41.519 determine in the same kinds of ways, in the same ways that we can 113 00:11:41.559 --> 00:11:52.440 do some of the other things in your book. I hate you, don't 114 00:11:52.480 --> 00:11:56.279 leave me. You mentioned a lot of things that happen, that are happening 115 00:11:56.360 --> 00:12:01.279 in the world that are causing an increase in bbd. Can you tell us 116 00:12:01.279 --> 00:12:05.240 a little bit about that? I think in some ways a lot of our 117 00:12:05.279 --> 00:12:13.559 culture is kind of a borrow in a borderline functioning. The most obvious is 118 00:12:13.600 --> 00:12:20.879 the recent pandemic. I think the tendency for isolation and adjustment in life has 119 00:12:22.120 --> 00:12:28.840 had a significant impact people who have been limited at how much they can get 120 00:12:28.840 --> 00:12:33.960 out and do the things that they can. I think exactlybate some of the 121 00:12:33.039 --> 00:12:37.840 tendencies and some of these symptoms that we see in bpds, such as concerns 122 00:12:37.840 --> 00:12:43.720 of being alone, concerns of being abandoned, difficulties with relationships, a tendency 123 00:12:43.840 --> 00:12:48.480 to self medicaid with drugs or alcohol. So it's really kind of worse than 124 00:12:48.840 --> 00:12:52.679 but I think also our culture tends to be, when we look at politics 125 00:12:52.679 --> 00:12:58.440 and when we look at so many areas of culture, a tendency life happens 126 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:05.559 in boiling personality is is a tendency to be extreme. One of the characteristics 127 00:13:05.559 --> 00:13:09.919 of bpd is a tendency to see things in extreme. They love beyond measure 128 00:13:09.919 --> 00:13:15.399 people who the next day they may hate without reason. You're my best friend, 129 00:13:15.399 --> 00:13:18.279 but then you did want little thing that kind of pissed me off and 130 00:13:18.320 --> 00:13:22.399 so now I hate your guts. That it's either things are either black or 131 00:13:22.399 --> 00:13:26.159 white, good or bad, right or a long extreme, and I think 132 00:13:26.159 --> 00:13:30.519 we see that a lot in politics. I can people tend to sometimes and 133 00:13:30.759 --> 00:13:35.360 to act an extreme in that borderline kind of way. In the legal system 134 00:13:35.440 --> 00:13:39.240 you're either you'll be or your I feelthy there's no kind of easy between. 135 00:13:39.080 --> 00:13:43.919 The biggest problem with borderline personality is a difficulty of seeing the gray zone in 136 00:13:45.039 --> 00:13:50.480 between sort of accept that there are people that I care for who have characteristics 137 00:13:50.480 --> 00:13:54.879 that I don't like. But in borderline personality you're good or your bad, 138 00:13:54.919 --> 00:13:58.320 and I think a lot of times in our culture we see things in those 139 00:13:58.399 --> 00:14:13.519 extremes. What are your thoughts about the controversial issues of CPD and being missed 140 00:14:13.559 --> 00:14:24.240 diagnosed as PPD? I'm sorry swiping this. Controversial issues of CPD being misdiagnosed 141 00:14:24.360 --> 00:14:31.480 as bpd? I'm sorry. CPD, CPDSD, like complex postponec trust art. 142 00:14:31.600 --> 00:14:37.360 Yeah, yeah, I think it becomes a matter of lumping or splitting. 143 00:14:37.799 --> 00:14:45.000 The welcome together is splittable part. As I said before, PTSD, 144 00:14:45.240 --> 00:14:52.600 complex P POSD is different from borderline personality disorder, although they both have often 145 00:14:52.679 --> 00:14:58.039 have a history of trauma. People with be with the complex PPSD do have 146 00:15:01.559 --> 00:15:09.639 some of the same problems with relationships, but I think basically they kind of 147 00:15:09.679 --> 00:15:15.200 melt into each other and I think it becomes kind of a false distinction because 148 00:15:15.399 --> 00:15:18.919 if the someone who's had that trauma and is having the symptoms of borderline personality 149 00:15:18.919 --> 00:15:24.960 disorder, I think it's just less complicated to identify it as borderline personality disorder 150 00:15:24.039 --> 00:15:31.639 with with the history of trauma and, as I said before, true PTSD 151 00:15:31.639 --> 00:15:37.279 has been determined to be, to be genetically different, to be biologically different, 152 00:15:39.720 --> 00:15:46.279 and are our distinction. I guess here's another question. It like mean 153 00:15:46.399 --> 00:15:52.000 your own personal experience? Would you say most bpd patients that you work with 154 00:15:52.399 --> 00:16:02.279 are due to trauma? The majority do have a history of trauma, usually 155 00:16:02.639 --> 00:16:11.799 in childhood, which usually results in some sense of lacking. What has been 156 00:16:11.840 --> 00:16:18.039 identified by professionals is what's called object constancy and ability to see some consistency in 157 00:16:18.200 --> 00:16:23.039 people are opposed to feeling like things are changing all the time, and I 158 00:16:23.080 --> 00:16:29.360 think that's that and some of the attachment that is that it is consistent and 159 00:16:29.519 --> 00:16:36.679 Aly Ale. Mothering experiences that are consistent and reliable are often disrupted for one 160 00:16:36.679 --> 00:16:41.159 reason or another. I think you see that in the majority but, as 161 00:16:41.159 --> 00:16:45.519 I said before, not in all of them. At what age do you 162 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:49.480 feel like? You mentioned your book about bpd starting to mellow out with a 163 00:16:49.480 --> 00:16:59.879 lot of their emotions. But like when do you usually see that? If 164 00:16:59.919 --> 00:17:04.640 you see it, well, you first begin to see although I've had pediatricity 165 00:17:04.720 --> 00:17:11.039 tell me they they see signs in young kids. Most often you don't really 166 00:17:11.079 --> 00:17:19.559 see the beginnings of bpd until late adolescents are already that the s and when 167 00:17:19.559 --> 00:17:25.240 at the first generally presents itself, although you know, some people fail that 168 00:17:25.480 --> 00:17:30.720 adolescents in general is an expression of borderline issues because indeed a fifteen year old 169 00:17:30.799 --> 00:17:36.960 is dealing with issues of identity, of moodiness, of impulsivity and so forth. 170 00:17:37.000 --> 00:17:41.480 So some people feel almost being a teenagers redundant of big borderline. But 171 00:17:41.519 --> 00:17:48.880 the truth, the true borderline that gets interfering comes up in early but when 172 00:17:48.920 --> 00:17:53.160 it's defined officially it's on a categorical area. In other words, to make 173 00:17:53.240 --> 00:18:00.960 the definition, to make the the true diagnostic definition of line personality. There 174 00:18:00.960 --> 00:18:07.039 are nine symptoms and you have to Indorse five of those nine symptoms. But 175 00:18:07.119 --> 00:18:15.079 over time for most of these patients those five dissipate and so starting even the 176 00:18:15.680 --> 00:18:21.440 s and usually by the forty most of these patients are getting significantly better. 177 00:18:21.440 --> 00:18:26.039 Some of the maybe self harming has gone away, some of the substance of 178 00:18:26.119 --> 00:18:30.400 the use has stopped, in which case they no longer satisfied five of those 179 00:18:30.480 --> 00:18:33.880 nine criteria. Maybe they have two or three of them, so it's officially 180 00:18:33.960 --> 00:18:38.559 they're no longer borderline. So that you most of the the vast majority, 181 00:18:38.599 --> 00:18:42.599 and by then I mean ninety percent or more, over time, starting in 182 00:18:42.720 --> 00:18:51.279 around the S, sometimes earlier, sometimes later, get significantly better and most 183 00:18:51.319 --> 00:18:56.960 get better to the sense that they no longer would fulfill the official criteria for 184 00:18:56.039 --> 00:19:00.160 for borderline personality. Now that's an that's not a great way to define it 185 00:19:00.160 --> 00:19:03.839 because it's sort of artificial, because really it's more a matter of degree. 186 00:19:03.960 --> 00:19:10.200 It's more a matter of it's not like suddenly your borderline and then now you're 187 00:19:10.240 --> 00:19:14.400 not because this went away. It's more a matter of just how how much 188 00:19:14.480 --> 00:19:18.480 is it interfering in your life? And but for most people they do mature 189 00:19:18.519 --> 00:19:23.519 out of it over period of time. What do you feel is the most 190 00:19:23.519 --> 00:19:30.440 helpful tool for those in relationships with individuals with borderline personality? Well, I 191 00:19:30.480 --> 00:19:37.559 think, and that's what the third book talking to a local foorderline personalities about 192 00:19:37.559 --> 00:19:41.920 it. Looking at some of the symptoms that you see in someone you interact 193 00:19:41.000 --> 00:19:45.039 with, such as the sort of kind of damn if you do, dam 194 00:19:45.160 --> 00:19:49.279 if you don't, kind of situation where someone with fourline personality a lot of 195 00:19:49.279 --> 00:19:53.400 time will put the person in a situation where there's no good answer. You 196 00:19:53.480 --> 00:19:56.920 know, do you like me better in this outfit of that out that? 197 00:19:56.079 --> 00:19:59.839 Oh, you don't like me over here. Oh, no, matter what 198 00:19:59.880 --> 00:20:03.200 you say, you're going to get in trouble with and I think learning to 199 00:20:03.279 --> 00:20:08.680 first recognize that that person just isn't being an evil, nasty person. The 200 00:20:08.799 --> 00:20:14.519 person is someone who's really struggling with the disorder. So I think person recognizing 201 00:20:14.519 --> 00:20:21.240 that a person you're with has some symptoms of a personality disorder helps and then 202 00:20:21.240 --> 00:20:23.119 and then being able to be patient, being able to see what sort of 203 00:20:23.160 --> 00:20:27.720 traps that can sometimes walk into that you don't want to get, that you 204 00:20:27.759 --> 00:20:34.599 want to kind of avoid, and they're there's certain approaches that I describe my 205 00:20:34.680 --> 00:20:41.039 book that are sort of way of just being able to be supportive and empathic 206 00:20:41.119 --> 00:20:48.359 with the person but also not being pulled along to exacerbate their symptom, being 207 00:20:48.400 --> 00:20:52.680 able to have some boundaries with them but also being able to show you that 208 00:20:52.759 --> 00:20:56.880 you care about this individual and then you understand that they're going through a difficult 209 00:20:56.920 --> 00:21:03.680 time. I mention your book that electric shock therapy was no good for those 210 00:21:03.759 --> 00:21:07.960 with DPD, but have you heard of much research with dealing with amd are 211 00:21:08.079 --> 00:21:15.240 neurow feedback to deal with trauma that could reduce symptoms of bpd? Well, 212 00:21:15.279 --> 00:21:18.640 there's certainly some literature that Mbr, which has to deal with eye movement, 213 00:21:19.839 --> 00:21:27.359 is has been helpful in dealing with with trauma in some people. It's very 214 00:21:27.480 --> 00:21:32.039 variable. I mean some studies have shown some help. Those studies have shown 215 00:21:32.160 --> 00:21:37.880 not as much child that has been shown in some cases. There have also 216 00:21:37.920 --> 00:21:47.720 been some small studies showing that TMS, transcranial magnetic therapy that's usually been used 217 00:21:47.720 --> 00:21:52.480 for depression, has been helpful for that. In general, though, physical 218 00:21:52.519 --> 00:22:00.960 treatments, including medication and shock treatment and tms have generally had less effect in 219 00:22:02.359 --> 00:22:08.079 impacting bpd. The most successful approaches have been treatment approaches and there's a number 220 00:22:08.119 --> 00:22:12.759 that have it formalized in sort of manuals that you can present, and those 221 00:22:12.759 --> 00:22:19.240 are treatments probably most wellknown as dialectical behavioral treatment, which is a form of 222 00:22:19.359 --> 00:22:23.359 kind of behavioral treatment. That's helpful, but there are other such a Schema 223 00:22:23.519 --> 00:22:29.599 related therapy, memalization based therapy that has to do with kind of working on, 224 00:22:29.759 --> 00:22:36.279 kind of empathizing and understanding the feeling transferred focus therapy, and there's a 225 00:22:36.400 --> 00:22:41.799 there's a therapeutic approach called just good psychiatric management, which is basically sharing with 226 00:22:41.880 --> 00:22:48.440 the individual who struggling with DPD what bpving is how you deal with it. 227 00:22:48.519 --> 00:22:56.200 How you do is simple ways to deal with emotional impulsiveness, emotional changes, 228 00:22:56.480 --> 00:23:03.119 recognizing when there are struggles and working on techniques to counteract it. But the 229 00:23:03.119 --> 00:23:11.039 physical treatment are not particularly helpful, accept for coexisting issues. In other words, 230 00:23:11.039 --> 00:23:15.440 there are no medicines currently available, and it isn't that pharmaceutical companies have 231 00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:22.359 not tried at hard non medications that are available at specifically treat borderline personality. 232 00:23:22.400 --> 00:23:26.200 But many, but most people would borderline personality, as I mentioned before, 233 00:23:26.319 --> 00:23:33.160 have the coexisting disorder, such as depression. I call with disorder anxiety. 234 00:23:33.559 --> 00:23:38.839 Substance of use and medicines can be helpful to treat the coexisting symptom and things 235 00:23:38.920 --> 00:23:45.039 and emb are can be helpful for treating the trauma part of things and tms 236 00:23:45.119 --> 00:23:48.359 can be helpful for treating the depression part of things, but generally they're not 237 00:23:48.440 --> 00:23:56.240 specific for the DPD is at least a targeted as just these different psychotherapeutic techniques 238 00:23:56.319 --> 00:24:03.160 are all right, Um, I guess. Do you have anything else you 239 00:24:03.160 --> 00:24:08.720 would like to add? Oh, I think the good news is unlike years 240 00:24:08.759 --> 00:24:18.279 before we win when borderline personality was was a disorder, that people that professionals 241 00:24:18.480 --> 00:24:22.519 didn't want to deal with, had a bad reputation, that had a stick, 242 00:24:22.599 --> 00:24:26.160 but that these people were impossible, we now know that the prognosis is 243 00:24:26.400 --> 00:24:30.240 very, very good. Most of these people are going to get better. 244 00:24:30.319 --> 00:24:36.200 We also know there are specific and targeted treatment program for people like this. 245 00:24:36.359 --> 00:24:40.920 They are not hopeless, they are not a pain in the neck, they're 246 00:24:40.960 --> 00:24:45.160 people who are suffering and who can who can get better, and we'll get 247 00:24:45.200 --> 00:24:52.200 better over time and I think, hopefully, our society has been more accepting 248 00:24:52.440 --> 00:24:59.200 of seeking treatment. Our biggest problem, I think today, especially since with 249 00:24:59.279 --> 00:25:04.839 the pandemic, has been the shortage of professionals that are available to treat the 250 00:25:06.000 --> 00:25:15.240 various forms of mental illness that in the country. Okay, well, I 251 00:25:15.240 --> 00:25:18.920 guess that's it. Thank you for your time, dared Gerald, and I 252 00:25:18.960 --> 00:25:26.039 hope to have you come back some time. All right, guys, thanks 253 00:25:26.039 --> 00:25:30.880 for listening. Tune in next Thursday. Always, follow us on your favorite 254 00:25:30.880 --> 00:25:37.920 platform, first podcast, social media, and if you have any questions, 255 00:25:37.000 --> 00:25:47.720 you can always contact us on Rachel and Recoverycom. All right, guys,

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